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One Child With Cancer Is Too Many

Posted on September 30, 2013

My son, Robert Stephen Gilmore, is now 16 years old and faced his second malignancy last year.

At three years old, he was diagnosed with Medulloblastoma (brain cancer) on February 24, 2000. He underwent chemo and radiation at Brenner Children’s Hospital at Wake Forest Baptist Medical Center in Winston-Salem, NC.

After 12 years of survivorship, he was diagnosed with stage III colon cancer last summer – rare in children.

On Wednesday, July 18, 2012, Robert complained to his grandparents of severe pain. We took him to the hospital and CT scans showed an obstruction of the small bowel. That Friday, he underwent a colonoscopy that revealed no malignancy. On Saturday morning, emergency surgery was performed to remove the mass and 23 lymph nodes. What appeared to be a mass blocking the small colon was actually a mass that had ruptured the large colon, blocking the small colon.

A few days later, biopsies revealed malignancy in the colon and five of the lymph nodes. He was allowed to go home on Saturday, July 28th and all he wanted to do was to go to church. I thank God for Robert’s faith in the divine healing!

On August 3rd, he had surgery to install the port by which he would receive his chemo. He was on the FOLFOX treatment. The next say he started his first of 12 cycles of chemo. Cycles occurred every two weeks for six months. His chemo port was removed on Friday, August 23, 2013.

Challenges and Inspirations

The most challenging part of the process was the unknown because of the lack of the number of children diagnosed. Medical professionals, doctors and nurses included, would look at me after finding out he had colon cancer and say, “Oh no!” It felt grim and when I went to the Google info on children with cancer, it appeared that they did not have good outcomes.

So, I stopped looking at the computer screen and began to rely on what we knew best: our faith and the medical professionals who had worked with Robert since he was diagnosed with brain cancer at three years old.

Missing Pieces

I would like to see more information about children and cancer and what is helpful for prevention in children.

I’d also like to see more research into how this secondary cancer that is rare in children occurred. No one can tell me how it occurred. The only thing I know for sure is that Stephen has no genetic markers. Was it growth hormone? Was it his VP shunt that got infected five years prior? Was it radiation when he was three? Was it his eating habits?

I do know that he is still at risk. I’d like to see more information out there on late effects for children and how to care for them after they have completed treatment.

Advice From a Caregiver

My advice is to educate yourself and don’t let all of the morbid information stop you from looking for information like I did. I have always been an extreme advocate because of my son’s late effects from the first cancer and this time, it really scared me because…”Kids don’t get colon cancer.”

Wendy Gilmore Baskins
Salisbury, NC

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7 Responses to “One Child With Cancer Is Too Many”

  1. Tom Floria says:

    You and your son are very brave. I know it is difficult. I am 68 and on the wait and see side of my second episode with colon cancer. I know the feeling of waiting for the other shoe to drop. Let’s hope it has in Robert’s case and he is able to grow into manhood and be the best he can.

  2. mary says:

    So so true..I also looked at statistics when my son was diagnosed at age 25 3 months ago
    He is on cycle 5 of 6 and then evaluatuon because he is stage 4 they are
    Not sure what the plan will be for next round. Your sons a fighter and his
    Story will help many please keep it up!

  3. Jennifer Hoover says:

    I too am a mother to a teenage son that was diagnosed with a rare form of colorectal cancer at age 16. He had the form called signet ringcell carcinoma and it was stage IV. He had it in his bones and lymph nodes up through abdomen, chest and neck. Since he was dianosed he has had a bowel perforation with emergency surgery. He had a colostomy for a short period and tgen had the ctyoreductive surgery with hipec.

  4. Tim D says:

    Cancer is an equal opportunity disease. It can strike anyone at any age at any time. I’ve seen young people come into the hospital complaining they don’t feel good. It ended up being cancer in an advanced stage; there was nothing anyone could do at the time. She had waited to long to say anything. Cancer is a killer. There is no reason why it chooses the victim’s it does. Young or old, no matter skin color. What you can do: diet seems to play a role. Eat plenty of whole fruits and vegetables. Limit red meat, and it should be lean. regular exercise. Do not use tobacco or illegal drugs. It is noted, Even the healthiest of people can get cancer. But these are preventive measures that apply to everyone and lower your chances. And, of course, support the American Cancer Society.

  5. Lori Ingram says:

    Thanks for sharing your sons story. My son Allen was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer at age 19, your right children should not be getting colon cancer at such a young age, 19 was a young age also. He battled for 3 years and on June 28th 2011 he went with the angels! Not a day goes by that I don’t think about him, I walk in the relay for life and the Undy 500 in his honor! Please feel free to email me for support or just to say hi! Thanks!

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